Catholic Charities’ program puts people in position to succeed
By Judy Masterson firstname.lastname@example.org December 9, 2012 3:50PM
Gurnee-12/8/12, Sat./St. Paul Catholic Church William A., 2, of Wildwood has his Mom, Suzanne A., of Wildwood give Santa a kiss during Catholic Charities holiday party Saturday in Gurnee. | Joe Shuman~For Sun-Times Media
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Gayle Andersen: In memory of Douglas Andersen, $25.
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Updated: January 11, 2013 6:15AM
Catholic Charities’ nationally recognized Family Self-Sufficiency program is breaking the cycle of poverty for women and their children, including Suzanne and her 2-year-old son William.
Suzanne, who will turn 28 the day after Christmas, credits the agency for helping her get her life together and teaching her how to take care of both herself and her child. Caught up in drugs out of high school, Suzanne has been in and out of recovery since 2004. She turned to Catholic Charities’ Mary Pat Maddex Place, a transitional home for women and children, after discovering she was pregnant. She wanted to learn how to be a parent, she said. And how to live on her own.
Last Saturday, Suzanne talked about overcoming obstacles in her life while William played with the contents of a Christmas stocking during the program’s annual Christmas party held at St. Paul Church in Gurnee.
“It’s ironic ’cause I actually used to volunteer for this program for Confirmation in eighth grade,” Suzanne said. “I never thought I would be the one who needed help.”
Catholic Charities caseworkers have helped Suzanne in a myriad of ways: legal help to get a criminal record expunged, help finding and keeping a job, help budgeting (saving so she could buy a vehicle), and help with parenting skills.
Suzanne recalls the days she was “scared and insecure” about her future. While she has gained confidence and independence, she’s grateful that Catholic Charities has her back, like the time the agency helped her make her rent payment while she was recovering from surgery. And she can still pick up the phone and check in with caseworker Megan Schmitz.
“I’ll call her and vent about a car problem, or anything really,” said Suzanne, as she let a squirming William down from her lap to play.
“My son keeps me going,” she said. “I could be having the worst day ever and he comes up and gives me a hug, and everything is better.”
Founded in 1985, the five-year Family Self-Sufficiency program, which is currently assisting 150 families, is designed to help single parents identify and overcome problems, including lack of education, employment, housing, childcare, and transportation. The program partners with about 50 area employers to place clients in jobs.
“The goal is to earn a living wage with benefits,” said Maureen Murphy, Catholic Charities associate vice president. “We used to have a lot of high-paying manufacturing jobs in Lake County, but those have been replaced by a lot of very low-paying service jobs. It takes about two-and-a-half full-time jobs at minimum wage to afford a two-bedroom apartment in Lake County. Eighty percent of people eligible for subsidized housing don’t receive it.”
Many parents in the program work and attend school so they can land higher-paying jobs.
This is the most determined group of people you’ll ever meet,” Murphy said. “They put the kids to bed and they’re up studying for an exam and the next morning they get up and go to work. The kids are so proud of their moms. They’re completing high school and going to college. Their lives are forever changed.”